Healing yourself, loving the world
You’re smart and successful.
One of your many talents is how you think and how you relate to the world. This makes you effective professionally but comes at a price personally. You struggle with feeling uneasy, out of step with others, and off-center.
If you’re honest with yourself, this sense of unease has been going on most of your life, but now the inner agitation is becoming more and more apparent and can’t be ignored.
You don’t have to choose between inner peace and success, but the path forward is not what you expect. It’s not about discipline, goal-setting, or being tough on yourself.
What you think is wrong with you is the key to discovering what is right with you.
You're not the problem
You don't understand why life feels hard at times, and you have already tried to fix "yourself." Therapy helps a bit. Meds sometimes take off the edge. Exercise always feels better, but your inner unease comes back. You might have tried coaching or some self-help approaches, but setting goals and being positive is not enough. Here's why.
3 reasons you feel tired and uneasy
First, people interact with the world in surprisingly different ways. Just like fish don’t know they are swimming in water, you probably aren’t aware of your personal way of engaging with the world nor all the other ways people interact with the world. Not knowing your strengths and blindspots makes lasting, personal change impossible to sustain.
Second, everyone has patterns and parts that get in their way. You know what I’m talking about - that familiar feeling of being triggered by certain people or situations. Past events that didn’t go well accumulate up over time, causing you to repeat the same behavior, with no end in sight.
Finally, some things can’t be done alone. But it feels vulnerable to ask for help. After all, you’re good at getting things done, it seems that if you keep trying, you should be able to figure this out. But you haven’t, and it's time to get a different perspective.
Why trust me?
Well, I’ve walked my own journey through unease, agitaiton, and sense of being at odds with the world. Now I feel relaxed and pleased with myself, with a sense of wholeness and compassion.
Since 2006, I've helped others in their journeys toward self-acceptance using the tools of tapping and adding on family constellations, human design, and other models of self-insight.
I'm graced with a compassionate intuition, wisdom, and the ability to see you, love you, and value you, no matter where you are in your healing journey.