Healing yourself, loving the world

You’re smart and successful.

You possess a unique perspective, a gift in how you connect with the world. Despite your journey of self-improvement, even spiritual growth, something feels off.

Stress, a sense of isolation, and uncertainty about the future linger. This inner turmoil, though familiar, has intensified, demanding your attention. Recent events may have left you feeling unsettled.

You don’t have to choose between inner peace and outer success, but the path forward is not what you expect. It’s not about discipline, goal-setting, or being harsh with yourself. 

What you think is wrong with you is the key to discovering what is right with you.

But life feels hard, and you’ve already tried to fix “yourself.” Therapy helps a bit, meds sometimes take off the edge, and exercise always feels better—but the inner unease returns. Coaching and self-help haven’t fully solved it either.

You’re not the problem.

Here’s why you feel tired and uneasy.

We interact with the world in unique ways. Like fish unaware of water, you may not recognize your own way of engaging—or all the other ways people do. Not knowing your strengths and blindspots makes lasting change elusive.

We all have patterns and parts that get in our way. That familiar feeling of being triggered? It’s past events accumulating, causing you to repeat behaviors endlessly.

Some things can’t be done alone. It’s vulnerable to ask for help, especially when you’re used to figuring things out yourself. But you haven’t yet, and a new perspective is needed.

You have your own wisdom and insight, and I have mine. Together we blend our experience, tools and intuition to discover exactly what you need.

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I might have nothing to say, but I have plenty to share.
Deborah Donndelinger

Why trust me?

Well, I’ve walked my own journey through unease, agitaiton, and sense of being at odds with the world. Now I feel relaxed and pleased with myself, with a sense of wholeness and compassion. 

Since 2006, I’ve helped others in their journeys toward self-acceptance using the tools of tapping and adding on family constellations, human design, and other models of self-insight.

I’m graced with a compassionate intuition, wisdom, and the ability to see you, love you, and value you, no matter where you are in your healing journey.

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