Healing yourself, loving the world
There are several predictable stages when we successfully decide to make a change in our lives. They might not be deliberate nor obvious nor linear. Become aware that something is not working for us or that we want something to be different. Assessing if we know how to change it alone or if we need … Read more
Many years ago I facilitated organization strategic business planning and professional goal setting. There was a model of evaluating goals called SMART. SMART stood for the following five criteria: Specific Measurable Attainable or Actionable Realistic Time-Oriented. I find those criteria to be somewhat helpful but they don’t nearly account for intuition, our own unique energy … Read more
The world needs us to step up If you were to look at your development personally and spiritually as a continuum, or an evolving state of being, you might notice movement through some of the following areas: Unaware of my actions and how my past history affects who I am today. Aware of my past … Read more
I am lucky. I have a very active and smart brain. I can dissect a problem, plan it, map it, set criteria, and prioritize it – you get the idea. I am also lucky in that I have a very strong intuition. I also can have a sense of something, a deep insight, that has … Read more
Look at most business advice on setting rates and you’ll find something along the lines of “Charge what you are worth” or, “You are not charging enough.” Many business coaches advise their clients to raise their rates. There is an assumption that if you are not getting top rates, you have a self-confidence issue or a … Read more
This article was the first piece I wrote on the Enneagram and EFT, published in an EFT magazine in the UK. You can find several other updated posts on my site on this subject. A practical model of transformation The Enneagram is a spiritual, psychological, and self-development model and system with a rich history. The … Read more
We are each so different in our make-up And society wants us to think we are all the same. Understanding the different ways of being, the different types of energy, and where our solid ground is can be a huge relief. You have a unique way of being in the world, more unique than you … Read more
I recently introduced a fellow unschooling mom to human design — the experience was such a relief for her. I’m finding that more and more I’m introducing my clients to design. For parents, it makes such a difference knowing what types our children are and what types we are, where we are defined and where … Read more
Much of what I’ve written about in my newsletters is how to use EFT, Family Energetics, and now Human Design to know ourselves. EFT allows us to clear past traumas and old emotional blocks so that we can fully access and embrace our authentic selves, releasing old patterns, blocks, and thoughts that limit us being … Read more
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