What is Family Energetics?
Our hearts long to belong. We want to know that we have value and we come from a family that has value. However, how do …
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Family Energetics, Reflections
A joyful event
The world met you on December 5, 2012. I had known you for a bit longer. The first time I saw you, I literally shook …
Deborah Donndelinger
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Best Of, Parenting & Health, Tapping
“I got a B!”
This fall, I had the chance to work with a delightful 11-year-old boy T. who was having some trouble with math. His parents and the …
Deborah Donndelinger
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Know & Grow Yourself, Reflections
Heartbased goal setting
Many years ago I facilitated organization strategic business planning and professional goal setting. There was a model of evaluating goals called SMART. SMART stood for …
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Know & Grow Yourself, Reflections
It’s up to us
The world needs us to step up If you were to look at your development personally and spiritually as a continuum, or an evolving state …
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Byron, Rumi, and Abe walk into a bar
Five spiritual teachers walk into a bar. How do you know that’s true? ~ Byron Katie Choose your truth. ~ Abe Life means suffering. ~ Four …
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The force field of the group
Family Constellations teaches that guilt is the price of leaving. What if there’s a new way? When we leave a family unit, or any group …
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Family Energetics
You’ve done your personal work You’ve done your personal work, but still feel stuck in some areas of your life. Perhaps a relationship that just doesn’t …
Deborah Donndelinger
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Archetypes, Know & Grow Yourself
Intuitive doesn’t mean flakey
I am lucky. I have a very active and smart brain. I can dissect a problem, plan it, map it, set criteria, and prioritize it …
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Archetypes, Best Of, Know & Grow Yourself, Reflections
Don’t charge what you’re worth
Look at most business advice on setting rates and you’ll find something along the lines of “Charge what you are worth” or, “You are not charging …
Deborah Donndelinger
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Family Energetics, Tapping Scripts
When EFT isn’t enough
I love EFT. I love how we can make significant changes using a whole new paradigm that is really mind-boggling with both its potential and …
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Being, doing, spiritual, or material?
Being, doing, spiritual or material? Sounds like twenty questions doesn’t it? Vegetable, mineral, or animal? Bigger than a breadbox or smaller? Worldly success is achieved by …
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Best Of, Parenting & Health, Reflections
Listening to my children’s intuition
Am I supporting my children’s connection to their intuition, inner knowing, physical instincts, mental capacities, emotional truth, and personal authority? To me this is the …
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Light or dark: a story of intuition
Date March 19. 2010. Location An alternative health care center on the East Coast Task Follow the relief The background At the time I was suffering from a …
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The jewel beneath our shame
One of the breakthrough insights I had during my daily tapping was around the role of the emotion of shame. This insight applies also to …
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The brilliance of getting to zero
Don’t be like me and stop at 1 or 2 intensity! Keep going and find new aspects for relief.
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The missing piece of healing found in Family Energetics
Family Energetics is a new approach for getting relief The premise is the same as Gary Craig’s for EFT but at the family level. The cause …
Deborah Donndelinger
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Best Of, Family Energetics, Tapping
EFT and Family Constellations
The very first blending of tapping and Family Constellations, this article explaining the combination of EFT and Family Constellations was published in Gary Craig’s newsletter …
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FAQs on surrogate tapping
Yes, you can tap for someone else, if you get yourself out of the way. Here’s how.
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A new parenting paradigm
The history of parenting is rather brutal, with children once considered non-entities that could be discarded, killed, or used at the parent’s whim. Over time, …
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